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The Three Biggest Investments that All Wealthy People Make

Fact #1: 497 people (approximately 0.000008% of the world’s population) control $3.5 trillion (over 7% of world GDP).
Fact #2: 99% of the US population is not part of the “investing class”
Fact #3: At the end of 2008 the average credit card debt for households was $10,679. And it continues to grow.
You can consider wealthy people evil and greedy or you can view them as a group of people who donate millions of dollars to charity. You can envy them or you can learn from them. You can despise them for their success or admire them for their achievements. That is up to you!
But whatever your perception and beliefs about rich people are, you cannot deny one thing – they are good at keeping and multiplying their wealth.
So what do they do differently from the rest of the population?
What are their best kept secrets?
1. Wealthy people invest money instead of spending it.
In business investing money means making a purchase of value with the expectation of favorable future returns. To put it simply, you use money to make more money. I looked up the term “spending money” in a dictionary and it actually means “using money for small current or incidental expenses”.
Spending money was supposed to be something that we do occasionally when you feel particularly impulsive. Most of us, however, have got it other way around. We spend 20 times more than we invest. And this is the main reason, why we are still not rich.
By “investing money” I do not mean “buying stocks” and “becoming a shareholder”. Anything you buy can be viewed as an investment or spending. The rules are simple- if a product loses its value in the long term – than it is a bad investment decision. If you get more value out of it – you are being smart with your money.
This concept is easier than it seems. Let’s take food, for example. If you eat junk food or processed food for dinner this will lower your energy levels, while providing very little or no nutrient value for your body.
Conclusion? You are spending your money on something that is bad for your health and your physique. Vice versa, home-cooked organic food is an investment that you make, by helping to keep your body strong and healthy.
Now let’s talk about cars. You are probably aware that a new car loses one third of its price the second you drive out of the dealership. Is it a good investment? Probably not… This is why most self-made millionaires prefer used reliable cars to a shiny new Jaguar.
Starting from now before reaching for your wallet, take a second to reflect if what you are about to buy is an investment or a waste of your hard-earned money.
2. Wealthy people invest in themselves. Wealthy people realize that you can always make more money if you have the knowledge about how to do it and the right set of skills. This is why they willingly spend about 20% of their income on self-education and personal development. They are the ones that read books, attend seminars and actively search for ‘mentors’.
If you want to be wealthy, you have to understand that knowledge and experience are your most valuable assets. It is the reason why professionals get paid 10 times more than college graduates do.
Think of what skills you would like to improve? What inner blocks and negative beliefs about money prevent you from being successful? What are your strengths that you would like to develop further?
3. Wealthy people invest in relationships. People who have money are often accused of having the “right connections”. It is viewed by many as a negative thing. Similar to a mafia clan, that spins its web around poor law-abiding citizens and indulges in money laundering and other illegal machinations.
Wealthy people have “connections” not because they were born into influential families, but because they take time to establish these relationships. Look at the best-sellers in self-help area, like “Think and grow rich” by Napoleon Hill, “How to Win Friends and Influence People”, ” Pathways to Success – In Your Personal and Private Lives” by Dale Carnegie, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” by Stephen R. Covey, “Awaken the Giant Within : How to Take Immediate Control of Your Mental, Emotional, Physical and Financial Destiny!” by Anthony Robbins – all of them were written by highly successful and self-made millionaires. They all talk about same things: the importance of positive thinking, expressing of gratitude, compassion, and giving.
Relationships in general, not just business relationships, are one of your strongest assets. Your family and friends will support you through difficult times. Your mentors will give you good advice when you most need it. Your co-workers help you out with a project and make your day more enjoyable. Your business partners and your customers will help you to increase your income and make money.
Invest your time and effort in creating good relationships with people. It is easy.
Here is a tip: “Treat others the same way you want them to treat you.”  - Jesus (from Luke 6:31).

invest money 300x198 The Three Biggest Investments that All Wealthy People MakeFact #1: 497 people (approximately 0.000008% of the world’s population) control $3.5 trillion (over 7% of world GDP).

Fact #2: 99% of the US population is NOT part of the “investing class”

Fact #3: At the end of 2008 the average credit card debt for households was $10,679. And it continues to grow.

You can consider wealthy people evil and greedy or you can view them as a group of people who donate millions of dollars to charity. You can envy them or you can learn from them. You can despise them for their success or admire them for their achievements. That is up to you!

But whatever your perception and beliefs about rich people are, you cannot deny one thing – they are good at keeping and multiplying their wealth.

So what do they do differently from the rest of the population?

What are their best kept secrets?

1. Wealthy people invest money instead of spending it.

In business investing money means making a purchase of value with the expectation of favorable future returns. To put it simply, you use money to make more money. I looked up the term “spending money” in a dictionary and it actually means “using money for small current or incidental expenses”.

Spending money was supposed to be something that we do occasionally when you feel particularly impulsive. Most of us, however, have got it other way around. We spend 20 times more than we invest. And this is the main reason, why we are still not rich.

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3 Rules You Must Follow If You Want Be Wealthy

money 3 Rules You Must Follow If You Want Be WealthyAlways keep in mind that you can attract as much money as you desire by knowing that it is all in the mind. It is what you choose to think, and act upon, that produces the money you want. What you think will be, will be.

Rule #1: Feel Rich and Be Grateful

What I am about to teach you is a simple yet very powerful way of attracting wealth and prosperity in your life.

First, imagine what life would be like if you are rich. Don’t just see it. Feel it as if you’re already experiencing the luxuries and lifestyle of the rich.

Do you see yourself driving your dream car? What model and color is it? Touch the seat and feel its soft texture. Open the car radio and listen to your favorite music. Experience the joy of driving it towards your favorite place.

Maybe you could visualize a house. How many rooms does it have? Take a relaxing soak in the bath tub. Smell the food aroma coming out from the large kitchen. Play sports in your own private gym.

The important thing here is to believe that you are already rich.

Now doesn’t that feel good? By doing this exercise, you are unleashing the powers of your subconscious and directing it to give you what you’re dreaming of.

But it doesn’t end there. To make this even more effective, breathe slowly while still hanging on to this wonderful feeling of being rich, and say a small thanks to God, or to a Higher Power.

By being grateful, you are commanding the Powers of the Universe to work in your favor. You are confirming that you are graciously accepting your blessings.

Try it out. Believe and feel that you are already wealthy, and be thankful for it. You will be astounded by the results.

Rule #2: Be Generous

Many people think that rich people are selfish, that’s why they have lots of money at hand. This may be true in some cases; however, there are a lot more individuals who are wealthy because they know how to give.

When you give something from your heart without expecting anything in return, you release a powerful force that will trigger your good deed to “bounce” back to you in amazing, and sometimes unusual ways.

Whenever possible, be generous in giving to others. You will notice that what you receive, or the return, will be more than what you give. As humans, we have the tendency to reciprocate what we receive. But don’t give for the sake of expecting something in return. Give freely from your heart, and the rewards would be greater.

The act of giving can summon the spirit of joy to come into your heart. How would you feel when you’ve given something to your less fortunate neighbors? Let me tell you that nothing could brighten up a day more than hearing them express their most heartfelt gratitude and seeing their smiles extend from ear to ear.

What you give doesn’t necessarily have to be something material. It can also be time, effort, talent, service, or even an affectionate feeling.

Lastly, here’s what I consider the most important rule about giving. Keep your good deeds to yourself. Don’t announce to the whole world that you’ve donated $100,000 to your favorite charity or that you’ve helped save a child from a life-threatening disease.

If you really desire to give, do it secretly and in private.

Some people would write “anonymous” rather than their own names when they’ve made a contribution. The universe smiles upon these individuals, and they will get their just rewards in due time.

Consider this: If you are on the giving end, doesn’t it mean that you are in a better position than the recipient? Doesn’t it complement your character?

Rule #3: Don’t Be Afraid To Lose

It is said that winners are not afraid to lose, because failure is a part of the process of success. People who are afraid to fail, lose success.

Like a coin or a chip, look at both sides of the possible effects of something you want to do. Say you want to buy a house or a car. It may seem to look like you’re buying an asset. Take a look also at the other side, it might be a liability because of the additional expenses it would incur. Weigh your options.

Think rich and put your thinking into action.