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3 Simple Steps to Allow Abundance into Your Life

steps to abundance 300x198 3 Simple Steps to Allow Abundance into Your LifeDo you know what any financial struggle starts with? No, not with the poor economic situation, bad luck or inadequate financial planning. It starts with the mind!

This might be hard to accept at first, because we may often feel that some life circumstances are beyond our control and, therefore, it is logical to blame external factors and other people for our financial difficulties. There is just one problem with this type of thinking – it does not resolve anything. Moreover, it leads us deeper into negative thinking patterns and creates bigger financial difficulties.

I am not saying that as soon as you change your attitude towards money, 100 dollar bills will fall from the sky like wild rain in spring time. Nor will I try to convince you that just by visualizing beautiful cars and dream houses, your financial situation will magically improve without you having to do anything.

But I am convinced about one thing – you can not become wealthy by thinking and reasoning like someone, who always struggles to make ends meet.

All that said, there are two ways to improve your financial situation:

1. Identify and challenge your negative and limiting beliefs about money.
2. Take these 3 Simple Steps to allow unlimited Abundance and life-long Wealth:

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Would You Rather have Grown Up in a Wealthy Family or Not?

wealthy family 300x196 Would You Rather have Grown Up in a Wealthy Family or Not?I thought about this question often when I was a teenager, partly because I went to a ‘privileged school’ where you could get in either by passing numerous tests or by having the right connections and making generous donation for school improvements. Consequently, I had classmates from very poor families and those who had everything a teenager could ever ask for (from the latest gadgets to fancy designer clothes).

At times it seemed cool having rich parents, who gave you expensive gifts and took you on the exotic vacations during summer holidays. Who would not want to be the offspring of a well-to-do family and have a top-quality education in a prestigious university or a new shiny car just handed to you?

However, the more I thought about it the more I realized that behind the gleam of luxury of my rich classmates often laid loneliness and self-consciousness. Their parents never had time for them. Their future had been planned out since they were little. And deep down they were intimidated by their parent’s success and struggling to live up to someone else’s unrealistic expectations. Of course, it is not always the case as each family and each situation is different.

There are many families that are successful in a monetary sense, whose children grow up to be hard-working, generous, compassionate and bright individuals.

Although, I personally consider it a blessing, not to have been born into a wealthy family and having had to work hard to achieve my goals. I am not sure I would have graduate so fast if I had not had to pay for my studies. Or that I would have developed the drive and determination to succeed without having had to face a few failures and making a few sacrifices.

What about you?

Did you grow up in a well-to-do family? Would you have wanted to?

And do you want your children to have everything they desire?

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Top 9 Laws of Abundance and Wealth

One of the oldest juridical principle states “Ignorance of the law excuses no one”. It means that even if we are unaware of the law, we still cannot escape liability for violating it.
Universal Abundance Laws follow the same principle. You might not be aware of them, but it does not mean that they do not influence your life and that you will not have to face the consequences for not following them to the letter.
If you feel that no matter what you do or how much you work, you still do not make enough money or live below your expectations and abilities, make sure that you read this!
1. THE LAW OF PAYMENT.  There is nothing free in the world. For anything you want to receive you have to pay first, be it with your money, time or energy. You pay for both – action and inaction. Usually in the long run inaction costs us a lot more than action does.
2. THE LAW OF ATTRACTION. You can attract into your life anything that you focus your mind on. You can focus your energy on what you WANT to get, DO NOT WANT to get or EXPECT to get. If you put your focus towards lack of money, a boring job, bad health, or poor relationships, the Law of Attraction will respond by giving you more of these things. Similar if you focus on positive aspects of your life you will created more situations of joy, happiness and abundance.
3. THE LAW OF REQUEST. You always get what you ask for. If you are not asking for anything, you will get nothing. If you do not know exactly what you want, prepare yourself for a big unpleasant surprise, that most of us call a “problem”.
4. THE LAW OF THINKING. Our reality is just a reflection of our inner thoughts and decisions. If it you can not visualize it, you can not get it.  People become wealthy because they decide to become wealthy. Those, who remain poor, simply have not made the decision to change their current situation. Any change always starts with a shift of attitude.
5. THE LAW OF ENERGY EXCHANGE. The law of conservation of energy states that the total amount of energy in the Universe remains constant. There should always be healthy balance between what you give and what you ask for.
If you give more than you take, you will quickly exhaust your resources. If you take more than you give, you will block the abundance flow. Material objects, thoughts, emotions and experiences exist to be shared with others. Otherwise, they lose their purpose.
6. THE LAW OF SIMILARITY. Like attracts like. Abundance creates more abundance. Just as scarcity attracts more scarcity. The easiest way to activate a flow of abundance is to pass on to someone what you would like to receive.
When you give something away, without expecting anything in return, you declare to the Universe that you already have more than you need. By doing that you send out into the world an energy of abundance and that energy comes back to you.
7. THE LAW OF CAUSE AND EFFECT. Any natural effect in our life has a natural cause. You cannot grow a fruit without planting a seed first. Similar, results that you receive today are the “fruits” of your past decisions and actions. If you do not like the results that you are getting, it is probably time to start doing something differently or make different choices.
8. THE LAW OF RESISTANCE. Activation of the flow of abundance does not necessarily guarantee that your financial situation will improve. Energy always tends to choose the path of least resistance.
If you are doing everything right and still do not see any improvements in your financial situation, it can mean only one thing – your negative beliefs or inner blocks do not allow the abundance energy to flow into your life. Ask yourself, why are you not wealthy yet? What is blocking you from getting what you want?
9. THE LAW OF RELATIVITY. Everything in this life is relative. Your income is just a number unless it has point of reference. If you compare yourself with the richest people of the world, you will constantly feel lack of money and, consequently, attract more lack. If you compare yourself with the poorest of the world, you may  realize how blessed you are.
Gratitude is a great way to keep your mind concentrated on abundance and wealth. Like a powerful magnet it keeps us in the flow and aligns our energy with receiving everything that we desire. There is always something to be grateful for. Take a moment to say “Thank you!” for all the wonderful things that you already have in your life. And the Universe will take care of the rest.

happy woman abundance 273x300 Top 9 Laws of Abundance and WealthOne of the oldest juridical principle states “Ignorance of the law excuses no one”. It means that even if we are unaware of the law, we still cannot escape liability for violating it.

Universal Abundance Laws follow the same principle. You might not be aware of them, but it does not mean that they do not influence your life and that you will not have to face the consequences for not following them to the letter.

If you feel that no matter what you do or how much you work, you still do not make enough money or live below your expectations and abilities, make sure that you read this!

1. THE LAW OF PAYMENT.  There is nothing free in the world. For anything you want to receive you have to pay first, be it with your money, time or energy. You pay for both – action and inaction. Usually in the long run inaction costs us a lot more than action does.

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