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Do You Feel the Need to Change Something about Your Life Today?

iStock 000014081605XSmall 300x199  Do You Feel the Need to Change Something about Your Life Today?Most of us look back on our lives and realize that we could have done things different or better. Sometimes we may regret not pursuing of changing certain aspects of our life sooner, while other times we wish we would have considered more options before jumping into a marriage or a new job.

I have often heard my Grandpa say that if life were perfect, there would be no room for any progress and learning. I still kind of wished my life was perfect, but he was right – our challenges and set-backs allow us to grow both mentally and spiritually. They make us stronger, wiser and more tolerant towards our own and other people’s imperfections.

If we are conscious enough we will not dwell on our past failures, but learn from them and concentrate on ‘right now’ – the only moment that we will ever really live in and control.

That is what I invite you to do today!

1. Take a deep breath, close your eyes, mentally distance yourself from all the doubts, past set-backs and self-defied limitations, and answer one question:

What is it that you need to change about your life?

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55 Simple Actions to Make a Huge Difference in Your Life

little things 300x200 55 Simple Actions to Make a Huge Difference in Your LifeOur life does not consist of one unforgettable vacation, one huge success, or one passionate love story. It is an ongoing chain of tiny events, little joys and seemingly insignificant decisions. It is how we spend our days. It is the simple caring gestures that we demonstrate towards the ones we love. It is the small things that make a huge difference in our life.
Thinking about this I made a list of 55 little actions that have had a noticeable impact on my well-being and life satisfaction.

Today I want to share them with you, hoping that some of these actions will become part of your ‘routine’ as well:

1. Wake up with the sunrise (you can find benefits of doing it here)
2. Give up one bad habit. The time has come! Here is how to do it.
3. Write positive affirmations and re-read them daily
4. Pray. It helps to know that you can delegate your problems to someone greater than yourself.
5. Meditate. Switch off and regain clarity
6. Take 20 minutes to find your passion (read more here)
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Spontaneous Acts of Kindness That Transform Us

acts of kindness 300x198 Spontaneous Acts of Kindness That Transform UsDo you remember a time when you helped another person for absolutely no reason? Or a time when a total stranger did something nice for you? How did it feel? Great? Odd? Wonderful?
Usually it is easy to be kind and compassionate towards people that you like. You are nice to them and they are nice back to you. Most of us exchange this type of kindness every single day, when we ask a friend how their family members are doing, when we offer to help a co-worker with their project, when we make a donation to our church.
This is not the kindness I am talking about. I mean real spontaneous kindness towards people that you might not even like.
Yesterday I was taking a stroll in the old city center. A tall nicely dressed man in his forties was walking in front of me. What got my attention was not the man, but the huge box of hand-made Belgian chocolates that he was carrying in his hand. A friend had once brought me a smaller box of these chocolates from Luxemburg and they were absolutely delicious. But unfortunately, I could not find them in the local grocery stores. I was just wondering, where he had bought them, when my “voracious” thoughts were distracted by screams and swearing coming from an old woman, sitting on the steps of the church.
Her clothes were dirty and her face was red from fury and probably years of drinking. She had a small plate with a few coins in it that she managed to collect that morning. People walking by were glancing and turning their faces, looking embarrassed, disapproving and even disgusted.