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If You Could Possess an Extraordinary Talent in One of the Arts, What Would You Like It to Be?

extraordinary talent dogs1 300x198 If You Could Possess an Extraordinary Talent in One of the Arts, What Would You Like It to Be?I believe that every single person already possesses at least one extraordinary talent. We feel a natural inclination to sing or dance, and some of our talents are still waiting to be discovered.

For example, when I was in High School I could not stand writing compositions and essays or analyzing the works of famous writers and poets. It would take me two whole days to come up with something moderately decent, because I would spend hours looking for the right word or the best way to phrase my thoughts (not that I had a lot of them to share in the first place).

To my great surprise when I was at College one of my friends asked me to write an article for the local magazine on how to rescue a drowning person. I remember that I sat down and wrote it in about half an hour, enjoying myself tremendously. It was nothing like 10-page essays!

It turned out that I was good at writing and that I actually loved it!

I am not sure that my ability to write can be called extraordinary, but this is the first talent I would choose to have. The second one without a doubt would be the ability to paint. I recently wrote a letter to a 10-year old boy attempting to draw a dog at the end of the page. My dog turned out to be so ugly that I had to rewrite the whole letter in order not to shock the poor kid. Thank God, there is youtube.com with its course on “How to draw a dog for children”. The second letter turned out much better.

I am not in the least bit discouraged! Who knows, maybe 20 years from now I will discover my own painting style and make a whole series of ugly dog painting. icon smile If You Could Possess an Extraordinary Talent in One of the Arts, What Would You Like It to Be?

But enough about me…

I am a lot more interested to find out what extraordinary talent you would like to possess?

If you could choose one talent in any art, what would you like it to be?

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What Is The One Skill That You Would Like To Master and Why?

skill to master 300x198 What Is The One Skill That You Would Like To Master and Why?This morning I read a list of 100 skills everyone should master. And to my greatest surprise I discovered that I lack many skills that the author of the post considered indispensable.
For example, I did not know how to trap a rat or a mouse and I sincerely hope I will never feel the need to find this out. I had no idea how to “jump start a car” or “change a tire and put on snow chains”. I am not proud of it, but I am not very ‘handy’ when it comes to fixing my car.
And to my greatest embarrassment I do not know how to do a “Heimlich Maneuver”.  I have seen people doing it in the movies, but I never knew it was called this.
I have also never tried to “use a fire extinguisher”, “deliver an eulogy” or “build a shelter”. Although, I do believe it is important to learn how to do all these things.
But if I had to choose just one skill which I would like to master, I would learn speed reading.
It fascinates me how people are able to comprehend words without actually saying them in their mind.
When I read a good book, I actually enjoy reading it at a normal speed and grasping every single word. But it would save me a lot of time when I do research, to just scan the pages and understand if I should keep reading or close the window and move on to the next page.
What about you?
If you could choose one skill to master which one would you pick and why?