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Anthony Robbins’ Recipe for Instant Life Change

instant life change 300x207 Anthony Robbins’ Recipe for Instant Life ChangeWhile most of us believe that change takes time, world-renown motivational speaker Anthony Robbins does not agree with this. He is convinced that it is preparation to change that takes time. Change itself occurs in an instant.

This makes sense if you look at change not as a life-changing transformation, but as a number of tiny actions that bring us immediate results.

Of course, it takes weeks to get ready for a marathon, months to learn a new language and years to build strong happy relationships. I will be the first to tell you that there is no way of naturally losing 35 pounds in a day or writing a book overnight.

But!

Every lost ounce, every written word, every single compromise that you make (even when you do not feel like it), is already a small victory, a little step towards a much bigger and more noticeable change.

According to Anthony Robbins there are Three Main Beliefs that are crucial for any long-lasting transformation to take place:

1. Something must change.

When everything seems to be going fine in our lives we tend to relax and get lazy. It is only when our ‘comfort zone’ gets too uncomfortable that we become determined to change something about our current situation and readily take proactive steps to do this.

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Six Types of Goal-Setters – Which one are You?

goal setting type 266x300 Six Types of Goal Setters – Which one are You?For over ten years of my life I have helped people achieve their goals. Sometimes I have a feeling that I have read every possible book on goal setting and motivation, tried most goal setting techniques on myself, seen some people perform miracles of determination and creativity and heard others make every possible excuse there is about why they can not pursue their goals.

And while every person is unique and different, there are some traits of character and similarities that many of us share when it comes to setting and achieving our goals.

I have identified Six Main Types of Goal-setters. After you finish reading about them, take time to say in the comment section, which one you are!

1. Judgment Callers

Judgment callers are people who choose not to set goals, either because they do not know what they want or they are ok with the way things are. They prefer to use judgment calls instead, which usually means that they pick the most urgent task on their to-do list and go with that.

People like this live in constant stress and struggle: reality hits – they react, problem arises – they solve it, boss demands – they perform. And it is not that they lack intelligence, determination or ability.

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Find Your Calling: It’s All About the Right Education and Career Choices

dream job1 300x204 Find Your Calling: It’s All About the Right Education and Career ChoicesI have met all kinds of people, who honestly believe that they are not good at anything. They simply get on with their lives.

It is firmly engraved in our society that you should choose an education that will guarantee a well-paid job. The same goes for a career. This is why we get a bunch of unhappy people who are working in jobs that bore them to tears and leave them feeling that there is something missing from their life.

Surprisingly, too many of us view our job only as a source of income, not taking time to ask ourselves if what we do is aligned with our interests, values, or our passion.

And I believe that it all starts with education…

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