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10 Things to Eliminate From Your Life

delete button 300x207 10 Things to Eliminate From Your Life In our hectic lives the secret to finding balance and inner peace is often not about what you add to your life. It is about what you take away.

Here are 10 Mayor Things that you can eliminate from your life right now to free up your energy and noticeably reduce the amount of stress you have to deal with every day:

1. Eliminate Watching TV.

It has been estimated that an average American spends 4 hours and 45 minutes a day watching TV, which over the year adds up to over TWO MONTHS! That is two months of our life that we could have spent playing with our children, getting fit, writing a book, starting your blog, learning a new language, meditating, attending workshops, or just doing what we like to do. There is another weighty reason to reduce amount of hours we spend in front of the TV – it numbs out our emotions!
Ever-growing scientific evidence indicates that people, who watch too much TV start living their lives through the characters in the shows and movies they are watching, ignoring their own feelings, goals and problems that need to be taken care of.
Do not let TV rob you of your family time and your peace of mind. Turn it off!

2. Eliminate Worry.

This is easier said than done. There are so many things to worry about from the oil spill in the Gulf of Mexico to how to finish an important work project on time. But the problem with worry is that it is useless. No matter how much of our time we spend imagining the worst or mulling over what others might say or think, it is not going to improve the situation. Unless we do something other than worrying to change it! Do not let “tomorrow steal too much of your today”! Eliminate worry and you will have so much more energy to enjoy every second of your life.

3. Eliminate Perfectionism.

The main idea behind our desire to ‘be perfect’ and ‘do perfect’ is a good one. It is based on our desire to become better, push our limits and improve our skills. It is the execution of the idea that is wrong. Ironically, our belief that what we do is not good enough becomes the biggest block to our growth. The first step to becoming better at something is to let go of perfectionism and allow  ourselves to experiment, make mistakes and learn from them!

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19 Ways to Start Your Day on the Right Foot

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The annoying sound of an alarm clock pulls you out of your dream. You open your eyes, make an enormous mental effort and take one hand out of the covers and hit “snooze” to happily drift back to sleep. A few moments later you hear the same familiar sound. Have 15 minutes already passed? You calculate that you can afford another 15 minutes of lolling about and hit snooze again.

By the time you drag yourself out of bed you have just enough time left to take a quick shower, get dressed, gulp down orange juice and grab something “eatable” on your way to the door. You spend the rest of the day feeling somehow annoyed and frustrated, because it seems that all you are doing is trying to catch up with your busy schedule! Does it sound familiar?

If yes, than the morning is probably not your favorite time of the day. Just like it was not for me. Although, I have learned that it does not have to be this way!

Here is how to make your mornings enjoyable and start your day on the right foot:

1. End the previous day right. Never go to bed in a bad mood. Settle any arguments, let go of frustration and make a conscious effort to relax your whole body. Calm down your racing mind. Stop thinking about work or going over all the stuff that needs to be done. Night time is meant for rest so make the most of it.

2. Get enough sleep. Being a night person myself I know how tempting it may be to stay up late chatting with your friends or just watching your favorite movie at home. It is fun, but you need to be smart about it. If you are robbing yourself of two extra hours of sleep, you are doing yourself a great disservice. 7 hours of sleep is an absolute must for most people in order to feel refreshed and energized the next day.

3. Do not close your blinds all the way. Our body has a built-in biological clock that is synchronized with natural light. When we find ourselves in darkness, our brain starts to produce “the hormone of darkness” – melatonin that signals to our body that it is time to sleep. Melatonin production is inhibited by light and this is how our body knows that it is time to get up. If you sleep in complete darkness, you will wake up in the morning feeling light-headed and tired.

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