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14 Easy Ways to Improve Decision Making

decision making 210x300 14 Easy Ways to Improve Decision MakingOur life is a direct result of the choices that we have made at each point along the way and we do not always do a good job at deciding what is best for us.

If we all made sound judgments we would not act irrationally, engage in needless conflicts, forego gains in order to spite others, make impulsive purchases, marry wrong partners and wrongly invade other countries. But the truth is that we do all of the above without even realizing how much our decision-making mistakes are costing us.

Unfortunately, it is not always simple to make the right decision and behave ‘optimally’.
However, there are a few things that we can do to noticeably improve our decision making skills and reduce the number of less than perfect choices that we rightly call “mistakes”:

1. Consider ‘opportunity’ cost.

Making good decisions does not always mean weighting costs against benefits. You have to take into consideration the ‘opportunity cost’ or what you give up by choosing another option. For example, reading friends’ updates on facebook can be a form of enjoyment and relaxation, but this is the time you could be spending doing something way more enjoyable like playing badminton with a friend, writing for your blog or jogging.

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What Has Been The Best Decision of Your Life So Far?

choice 209x300 What Has Been The Best Decision of Your Life So Far?

I believe that our life is shaped around the choices that we make. Some of these choices could seem insignificant and could even have been forced upon us. But even these tiny, insignificant choices can sometimes change the course of our life.
For example, one of the best choices that I have made in my life was to quit my job and start my own web site. This was a big, life – changing decision for me.
But now when I think about it, I might never have made this decision, if one day (11 months before I gave in my two weeks notice) I had not stopped at Barnes and Noble’s after work to buy a new romance to read. As I was going by the self-help section, I saw another book with a catchy name “Chicken soup for the soul” by Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen.
I opened it at a random page and read, “A self-fulfilling prophecy is that you get what you expect. Why not create great expectations and the highest vision possible for yourself and the whole world?” I bought the book and finished reading it in three days.
It was the first step on the way to my life-changing decision and it was followed by me making all the other little decisions that lead me to opening my own business and later finding my life purpose.
Every single moment we are faced with choices. And every single moment we adjust our life path in some way.
Now I want to ask you a question – What has been the best decision of your life so far?
Was it a spontaneous decision or a thought – through rational choice? How did it change your life?