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A Wonderful Opportunity to Re-write Your Life From Scratch

dream big 207x300 A Wonderful Opportunity to Re write Your Life From ScratchJohn Sculley was sitting in his office scanning through the papers on his desk. Having been president of PepsiCo for 6 years now he knew the price of success. He was great at what he was doing, his company paid him a handsome salary, his employees admired him and he had a reputation of one of the most skilled marketers of all times. His life was perfect. The only person that was darkening his picture perfect life was Steve Jobs.
Apparently the man did not understand that “No means No!” Jobs continued to bug him, trying to convince him to work for Apple. Sculley was absolutely sure, there is nothing Jobs could offer, that would top what he had right now… It turned out he was wrong…
Four hours later he decided to quit his job. On April 8, 1983 Sculley became CEO of Apple. What did Steve Jobs offer him? Nothing he had not offered before. The only thing he did was asked Sculley one simple question, “Do you want to spend the rest of your life selling sugared water to children, or do you want a chance to change the world?”
Sculley chose the latter and during his tenure Apple has increased its sales from $800 million to $8 billion, creating a revolution in computer technologies.
Now I want to ask you a question – How do you want to spend the rest of your life?
If you are still unsure how to answer this question, or feel that you are not living up to your potential, there is a wonderful method that allows you to see beyond your past failures and current limitation and get a little preview of what it could look like and, most importantly feel like.
Here is what you need to do:
Take a piece of paper or open a word document and write “My New Life Story” at the top. Go ahead and do it right now! Do not turn it in to one of those exercises that you read, think “Hmmm… It’s an interesting idea. I should try it sometime”, and then never get back to. You have nothing to lose, but a lot to gain.

Your Perfect Goal – Not Too Short-Term, Not Too Long-Term

short term vs. long term 300x205 Your Perfect Goal   Not Too Short Term, Not Too Long Term“If you don’t have time to do it right you must have time to do it over”. ~Author Unknown

Last week I had the rare opportunity to meet one of the top three world’s futurologists (as it turns out “futurology” is a profession!). This highly successful man gets paid $20,000 by such corporations as IBM and BMW for making a 45 minute speech on the future of innovations. We started talking and he said a very curious thing, “People are predisposed to think in two categories: short-term and long-term perspective. I get paid a lot of money, not because I am smarter than most of the innovation consultants out there, but because I am one of the few specialists who makes mid-term predictions. ”

This phrase for some reason stuck with me and made me notice something I have never thought of before. In goal-setting all the “experts” advice us to break goals in two categories:  short-term goals and long-term goals. We have all accepted this as a given, because it makes sense to us. And yet how many of us continuously underestimate how much time it will take us to achieve our goals and later feel frustrated about not being able to meet our deadlines?

Maybe the real problem lies in the system itself and not in our inability to plan our actions steps correctly?

Let me explain this…

Short-term goals are generally defined as those that may be achieved in one year or less. While short-term goals are easy and motivating there are a few serious problems:

1.  We often confuse short-term goals as tasks on our to-do lists. As a result we set too many of them and later feel overwhelmed and stressed out.

2. Our short-term goals are often competing with one another. For example, you may want to pay off your credit card debt, save money for a car down payment. But at the same time you dream about a two week vacation in Thailand and you also know that you need to buy your mom a Birthday present. These goals do not seem contradictive, but they all compete for one of your most important resources – money.

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