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Do You Feel the Need to Change Something about Your Life Today?

iStock 000014081605XSmall 300x199  Do You Feel the Need to Change Something about Your Life Today?Most of us look back on our lives and realize that we could have done things different or better. Sometimes we may regret not pursuing of changing certain aspects of our life sooner, while other times we wish we would have considered more options before jumping into a marriage or a new job.

I have often heard my Grandpa say that if life were perfect, there would be no room for any progress and learning. I still kind of wished my life was perfect, but he was right – our challenges and set-backs allow us to grow both mentally and spiritually. They make us stronger, wiser and more tolerant towards our own and other people’s imperfections.

If we are conscious enough we will not dwell on our past failures, but learn from them and concentrate on ‘right now’ – the only moment that we will ever really live in and control.

That is what I invite you to do today!

1. Take a deep breath, close your eyes, mentally distance yourself from all the doubts, past set-backs and self-defied limitations, and answer one question:

What is it that you need to change about your life?

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55 Simple Actions to Make a Huge Difference in Your Life

little things 300x200 55 Simple Actions to Make a Huge Difference in Your LifeOur life does not consist of one unforgettable vacation, one huge success, or one passionate love story. It is an ongoing chain of tiny events, little joys and seemingly insignificant decisions. It is how we spend our days. It is the simple caring gestures that we demonstrate towards the ones we love. It is the small things that make a huge difference in our life.
Thinking about this I made a list of 55 little actions that have had a noticeable impact on my well-being and life satisfaction.

Today I want to share them with you, hoping that some of these actions will become part of your ‘routine’ as well:

1. Wake up with the sunrise (you can find benefits of doing it here)
2. Give up one bad habit. The time has come! Here is how to do it.
3. Write positive affirmations and re-read them daily
4. Pray. It helps to know that you can delegate your problems to someone greater than yourself.
5. Meditate. Switch off and regain clarity
6. Take 20 minutes to find your passion (read more here)
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A Wonderful Opportunity to Re-write Your Life From Scratch

dream big 207x300 A Wonderful Opportunity to Re write Your Life From ScratchJohn Sculley was sitting in his office scanning through the papers on his desk. Having been president of PepsiCo for 6 years now he knew the price of success. He was great at what he was doing, his company paid him a handsome salary, his employees admired him and he had a reputation of one of the most skilled marketers of all times. His life was perfect. The only person that was darkening his picture perfect life was Steve Jobs.
Apparently the man did not understand that “No means No!” Jobs continued to bug him, trying to convince him to work for Apple. Sculley was absolutely sure, there is nothing Jobs could offer, that would top what he had right now… It turned out he was wrong…
Four hours later he decided to quit his job. On April 8, 1983 Sculley became CEO of Apple. What did Steve Jobs offer him? Nothing he had not offered before. The only thing he did was asked Sculley one simple question, “Do you want to spend the rest of your life selling sugared water to children, or do you want a chance to change the world?”
Sculley chose the latter and during his tenure Apple has increased its sales from $800 million to $8 billion, creating a revolution in computer technologies.
Now I want to ask you a question – How do you want to spend the rest of your life?
If you are still unsure how to answer this question, or feel that you are not living up to your potential, there is a wonderful method that allows you to see beyond your past failures and current limitation and get a little preview of what it could look like and, most importantly feel like.
Here is what you need to do:
Take a piece of paper or open a word document and write “My New Life Story” at the top. Go ahead and do it right now! Do not turn it in to one of those exercises that you read, think “Hmmm… It’s an interesting idea. I should try it sometime”, and then never get back to. You have nothing to lose, but a lot to gain.