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Mother Teresa: The Tiny Woman With A Big Heart

Mother Teresa 227x300 Mother Teresa: The Tiny Woman With A Big HeartEarly years and inner calling

Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhiu, known to most of us as Mother Teresa, was born on August 27th, 1910 in Skopje, Kosovo (now the Republic of Macedonia). Very little is known about her younger years, except that her father died when Agnes was only 8 years old, and her mother had to assume responsibility for the whole family.
When she was 18, she started to think of becoming a nun and soon left her parental home and travelled to India to join the Sisters of Loreto as a missionary. She never saw her mother or her sister again.
In 1929, after training in Dublin, she began her novitiate in Darjeeling, where two years later she took her first religious vows as a nun, choosing the name of Teresa (after  Terese of Lisieux). This was the day, when one chapter of her life closed and another one began.

A life of a nun

Shortly after taking her vows Sister Teresa was sent to St. Mary’s High School for girls in a district of Calcutta, where she taught history and geography for 15 years. However, the protective environment of the school for the daughters of the wealthy could not hide the sufferings and poverty of the ordinary people of Calcutta. Sister Teresa’s heart ached every time she glimpsed outside the convent walls, and saw that no one was doing anything for the people dying on the streets from hunger and disease.

The calling within a calling

On 10th September 1946, while travelling from Calcutta to Darjeeling for the annual retreat, Teresa experienced what she later described as “the call within the call”. She was to leave the Loreto and “follow Christ into the slums to serve him among the poorest of the poor.”

John D. Rockefeller: The Man Of Few Passions

Rockefeller 239x300 John D. Rockefeller: The Man Of Few PassionsEarly Years and Early Ventures

John D. Rockefeller was born on July 8th , 1839, in Richford, New York, the second of six children. His father was “a pitch man”, who traded patent medicines that, he claimed could cure cancer. His mother was the complete opposite of his father’s fun-loving ways. She was very strict and religious woman. She taught her children very early to work, to save money and to give to charities.
In 1853 the Rockefeller’s family moved to Cleveland, Ohio, where John successfully graduated from high school as one of the top math students.
In spring of 1855 Rockefeller spent 3 months at Folsom’s Commercial College where he learned bookkeeping, mercantile customs, banking and exchange.
Around this time a local minister challenged him to make as much money as he possibly could and then give away as much money as he could. “It was at this moment” – as Rockefeller later recalled – “that a financial plan of my life was formed”. He stopped his education to find a job. He was only 16 years old…
Only a month later young Rockefeller got a job as an assistant bookkeeper with Hewitt & Tuttle, commission merchants and produce shippers, where he surprised his employers with his seriousness, diligence and determination. Even though his salary was very low, he always gave some of his earnings to the Church and local charities.
In 1858, after working at Hewitt & Tuttle for three years Rockefeller began to engage in trading ventures on his own account.
Several months before his 20th birthday he put forward $2000 to start his first company with his neighbor Maurice Clark. In their first year of trading grain, hay, and meats, Clark & Rockefeller grossed $450,000, making a profit of $4400.  In spite of the flourishing business, Rockefeller realized that the future of the commission merchant business in Cleveland was going to be limited. He started to look for other business opportunities and soon Fortune smiled at him.

Big Opportunity and Even Bigger Risks

In 1859 the something “big” that he was looking for surfaced in Pennsylvania with the discovery of oil and the building of railroad to Cleveland. Overnight wildcat companies stripped away whole forests to put up thousands of oil derrick, hoping to strike black gold. John Rockefeller knew that drilling for oil was a very risky business. He decided it was better to invest in refining, not drilling. So he opened a new business with Samuel Andrews, who had technical knowledge in the field.

Walt Disney: A Person Who Never Stopped Dreaming

Walt Disney 256x300 Walt Disney: A Person Who Never Stopped DreamingWalter Elias Disney was born on the 5th of December, 1901 in Chicago, Illinois. He spent his childhood on a farm near Marceline, Missouri. Walt started drawing at very early age and when he turned 7 he was already selling his sketches to the neighbors. Although, Walt Disney’s father worked hard to support his wife and five children, the family still had to count every penny. Walt had to start working young, selling candies and newspapers on the train that traveled between Kansas City and Chicago, Illinois. He also took some art lessons at McKinley High School in Chicago.
In 1918 Disney dropped out of high school to serve in World War I. Rejected because he was only 16 years old at the time, he still joined the Red Cross and was sent to France, where he spent a year driving ambulances. When people saw Disney’s ambulance they always followed it with a smile, because instead of the stock camouflage it was covered with Disney cartoons.
One setback after another…
After returning to the US, Disney won a scholarship to the Kansas City Art Institute. There he met one of his best friends Ub Iwwerks. Together they started their own company Laugh-O-Grams, which eventually fell bankrupt. In August 1923 with his suitcase, a few drawing materials and a twenty dollar bill, Walt Disney headed to Hollywood to meet his brother Roy O. Disney and to start anew. Ub Iwerks joined them shortly after. Soon they received an order from New York for the first “Alice Comedies”, distributed by M.J. Winkler. Business took off and Walt could afford to hire more people to join his team. On July 13, 1925, Walt married one of his first employees, Lillian Bounds and later on they would be blessed with two daughters, Diane and Sharon.
By 1927 the “Alice Comedies” started to lose their popularity and the brothers began working on a new animated character, Oswald the Lucky Rabbit. This series was successful, but in 1928, Walt discovered that M.J. Winkler and her husband, Charles Mintz had not only stolen the rights to the character from him, but also all of his animators, except for Ub Iwerks. The rights to the Oswald trademark, was now owned by Universal.
Birth of Mickey Mouse.
Taking the train back home and trying to take his mind of the fact that the people he had trusted and worked together with for so long had betrayed him, Walt started doodling on a piece of paper. The result of these doodles was a mouse named Mickey.

Guy Laliberté: The Man Who Challenged Stereotypes of Success

guy laliberte 264x300 Guy Laliberté: The Man Who Challenged Stereotypes of SuccessChoosing street life over stability

Guy Laliberté was born in Quebec City, Canada, on September 2nd, 1959. His father was a Public Relation Executive for Alcan Aluminum Corporation and his mother worked as a nurse. Since early childhood Guy was interested in performing and even took lessons in folk dancing. The regular middle-class future was not for him. He dreamed about travelling all around the world and living a free life as a street performer.

At the age of 14 Guy Laliberté left home, joined a folk music group called “La Grande Gueule”, and started to earn his living by playing the accordion and harmonica on the streets of Quebec.

He love performing and telling the stories. But he even more than telling stories he enjoyed listening to other performers’ talk about their life, places they had travelled to, their dreams and adventures. He longed to see the world. And at the age of 18 his dream finally came true and he bought a ticket to Europe.

The beginning of a great adventure…

He arrived in London with grand dreams, very little money in his pocket and no place to stay. That night Laliberté fell asleep on a bench in Hyde Park, covering himself with the only coat he had. Police officers could have easily mistaken him for a bum, but this did not worry Guy even a little bit. There was so much to see and so much to learn!

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Henry Ford: The Man Who Understood Business

henry ford 235x300 Henry Ford: The Man Who Understood BusinessSome consider him an icon of the self-made man. Some accuse him of being a liar and a traitor. His revolutionary innovative concept, called after him “Fordism”, helped to increase the economic prosperity of the United States in the 1940s to 1960s. He was also responsible for the creation of the Ford Foundation – one of the world’s richest philanthropic organizations.

During his life he was known as a man, who in spite of his wealth continued to care for the common man. But also as a person, who was responsible for publishing nearly a hundred anti-Semitic articles in his newspaper the Dearborn Independent.

There is no single opinion of Henry Ford. One thing however that can be confidently said about him is that he was a great man, who was not afraid to dream BIG and go after his dream…

Poor Student and Poor Farmer

Henry Ford was born on July 30, 1863 on a farm near Dearborn. When Ford was 12 years old his mother died during childbirth, leaving him and his 5 siblings in the care of their father. Until the age of 15 Ford attended school, even though he strongly disliked it. He never learned to spell or read well and wrote only using the simplest sentences.

His lack of interest in his studies was compensated by his fascination for machinery and mechanical objects. He repaired his first watch at the age of 13 and soon neighbors and friends started to bring him their broken watches to fix.
Since his early childhood Ford knew that farm life was not for him and as soon as he got the chance he headed to Detroit to become an apprentice. In 1882, Henry finished his apprenticeship and was qualified to work as a machinist.

This did not appeal to his father at all. He offered Ford a bargain – forty acres of timberland in exchange for the promise that he gave up machinery. Ford accepted the proposal, and used the land to build a small house, sawmill and a first-class machinist’s workshop (to the great disappointment of his dad).

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Richard Buckminster Fuller: The Man Who Experimented With His Life…

buckminster fuller1 201x300 Richard Buckminster Fuller: The Man Who Experimented With His Life...The name Richard Buckminster Fuller is not widely known, but his inspirational life story and his extraordinary ideas are worth learning. His life, he said, was an experiment.

Fuller was born on July 12, 1895, in Milton, Massachusetts. Born into a wealthy and patrician family, he never experienced lack of money or lack of popularity. In his teenage years he horrified his parents by getting expelled from Harvard twice: once for treating an entire New York dance troupe to champagne on his own tab and then, after having been readmitted, for his “irresponsibility and lack of interest”. To his family’s shock, he never completed his college education.

Between his sessions at Harvard, Fuller worked in Canada as a mechanic in a Cotton mill, and later as a laborer in the meat-packing industry.  At the age of 22 in 1917, he married his sweetheart Anne Helwett and joined the US Navy for wartime service, where for two years he eagerly served as a shipboard radio operator, and later as a crash-boat commander.

His life seemed almost perfect at the time, but in only a few years his familiar and secure world had turned upside down.

By the age of 32 Fuller was bankrupt and jobless, living in low-income housing in Chicago. His daughter Alexandra died from polio meningitis. He had no viable means to support his wife and his other new born child. His failures and misfortunes pushed him over the edge and he started drinking heavily.

Not seeing a way out, Fuller seriously thought about committing suicide. But before drowning himself in Lake Michigan, he decided to give himself one last chance.

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A Story Of Napoleon Hill And His Success Formula

napoleon hill 284x300 A Story Of Napoleon Hill And His Success FormulaWho is Napoleon Hill?

Napoleon Hill can be considered one of the “fathers” of the modern genre of personal-success literature. He was one of the most successful writers, teachers and motivational speakers of his time. Not many people know that Hill’s theory was redeveloped by Bob Proctor in the movie “The Secret”. The “Law of Attraction”, which is widely discussed in self-help books, learning programs, and seminars, actually reformulates Hill’s book “Law of Success”, that was written 80 years ago!

The lessons that he taught others have helped thousands of people all over the world. Very often these were the same lessons that he had learnt himself the hard way.

Biography

Hill’s life was not easy. There was nothing grand about his beginnings. He was born to a poor family on the Pound River in Wise County, Virginia in 1883. When he was 10 years old, his mother passed away and he was left in the care of his father. Two years later his father remarried, but the family’s financial situation did not improve much.

So at the age of 13 Hill found his first job as a “mountain reporter” for a local newspaper. Over time he saved money from his job as a writer and was accepted into law school. However, as he could not finance his way through college, he was forced to leave law school and return to work as a reporter. What had seemed as another setback, turned out to be a great opportunity…

Life-Changing Encounter

When Hill was 25 years old, he was given an assignment to interview and write a series of articles about the richest and most famous men of the time. One of these men was a steel magnate Andrew Carnegie. This encounter changed Hill’s life forever. During this fateful encounter Hill asked Carnegie, the regular question, “To what do you attribute your success?” and received an answer that he was not expecting.
This is what Hill himself wrote about this conversation:

“With a merry little twinkle in his eyes he said:
“Young man, before I answer your question will you please define your term ’success’?”
After waiting until he saw that I was somewhat embarrassed by his request he continued:

“By success you have reference to my money, have you not?”
I assured him that money was the term by which most people measured success, and he then said:
“Oh, well – if you wish to know how I got my money – if that is what you call success – I will answer your question by saying that we have a master mind here in our business…”

The concept of the Master Mind would become one of the most important keys to success in Napoleon Hill’s theory. But we will talk about it later…

Carnegie was intrigued by idea that the average man could easily achieve financial abundance just by using a “success formula” (that Carnegie believed existed). He challenged the young writer to interview 500 of the wealthiest people in the world and find out what it was about their personality that made them successful.

Hill eagerly accepted the challenge and met with some of the great people of his era such as: Henry Ford, William Taft, Thomas Edison, John Rockefeller, Woodrow Wilson, F.W. Woodworth, and Alexander Graham Bell.

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A Story Of Robert Baden-Powell

baden powell1 241x300 A Story Of Robert Baden PowellWho Is Robert Baden-Powell?

Although the Boy Scouts are normally considered very American, the founder was British. Robert Stephenson Smyth Baden-Powell was an extraordinary person, whose whole life can be described as an incredible adventure. Baden-Powell was a British soldier, a spy, an actor, a naturalist, a very good watercolor artist, and even a female impersonator. During his life he wrote 32 books and received honorary degrees from Edinburgh, Toronto, Montreal, Oxford, Liverpool and Cambridge Universities.

Oh, yes, he also founded the largest-youth movement ever created.

Biography

Robert Baden-Powell was born in London on February 22, 1857. He was the eighth of ten children of the Reverend Baden-Powell, a Professor at Oxford University. His father died when Robert was only three years old and the family was left not very well off. Robert was given his first lessons by his mother, but later he gained a scholarship for admittance to Charterhouse School. After school he served in British army from 1876 -1910.

A Spy Or A Writer?

Baden-Powell’s military career was interesting and outstanding from the start. In 1876, he joined the 13th Hussars in India.

In the early 1880s Baden-Powell together with his regiment were posted to South Africa, where amidst Zulu tribesmen he strengthened and honed his scouting skills. His skills were mentioned in dispatches and he was soon transferred to the British secret service. His favorite disguise was that of a mad butterfly enthusiast. He dashed, net in hand, around military forts in Germany, French Tunisia, and Algeria. At the end of each “sporting” day, Baden-Powell drew pictures of what at first glance looked like captured pets. In reality they were accurate layouts of forts with the size and location of its’ guns skillfully hidden in the sketches.

During the Boer war (1899-1900) Baden-Powell became a national hero when, with a small garrison he commandeered the defense of Mafeking. After this episode he became a Major-General at the age of only 43! During the Boer war he wrote a small manual entitled “Aids to Scouting”. Initially meant for military purposes the book reached a far wider readership than it was intended. When after 3 years Baden-Powell returned to England to his surprise he found that his book was being used by youth leaders all over the country.

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Stories Of Successful People

Probably like everyone else, I have tried to understand why when some people achieve stellar success and enjoy every second of their lives, while others spend their days in misery and poverty.

People who fail to achieve their goals usually put it down to unsupportive parents and family, lack of education, poor financial situation, lack of “connections”, ill-health, lack of time, personal characteristics or bad economy.

Most of us have been told since early childhood that, “You have to work hard for your money”, that “All successful people are evil, cunning, selfish, and greedy”, that “You have to have money/connections to make money and become successful”, and that “Some people are born under a lucky star, while others are followed by “bad luck”.

Indeed, the lives of many successful and wealthy people seem perfect and care-free. They live in gorgeous mansions, drive expensive cars, wear stylish clothes, go on vacations to exotic countries, date and marry beautiful people, appear on TV, or are smiling happily at us from magazine covers.

It is easy to believe that success and wealth has come to them easily and effortlessly. Whenever, we talk or read about famous people, we never equate ourselves with them. It is almost as if they belong to a “special group”. We can either envy or admire them, but rarely do we think of them as “regular” or “ordinary” (just like me or you).

I believe it happens because few of us realize that most successful people came from poor families, have had abusive parents, started at the very bottom and climb their way up, faced multiple setbacks, and made hundreds of mistakes before they achieved their goals.

These people have changed this world and demonstrated by their own example that nothing is impossible. We should seek inspiration in their success stories, learn from them, adopt similar mindset, develop success habits, and apply what we have learned to our own life.

No one has ever become wealthier from counting other people’s money or happier from discussing their personal life. But every success story can be used and applied as a method, technique or a guidebook for you to become successful.

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