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20 Surprising Benefits of Meditation Everyone Should Know

meditation 300x222 20 Surprising Benefits of Meditation Everyone Should KnowFor decades meditation practice has been viewed with suspicion and often thrown into the same ‘esoteric’ pot as crystals, astrology and palm readings. However, the situation is changing fast as more and more people turn to meditation practice, looking for silence, inner peace and tranquility.
If you have never meditated, below are some convincing reasons, why you might want to reconsider and give it a try.
If you are practicing meditation regularly (or at least trying to), keep reading anyway to discover all the physiological, psychological and spiritual benefits that you get while meditating!
Here is a list of 20 Amazing Benefits of Meditation:

1. Stronger, healthier heart.

Meditation is not just a practice to calm down our mind. It has numerous physical health benefits as well. Recent studies have found that meditation can protect us against heart disease and stroke (both leading causes of death in the Western world). Your heart can benefit from regular meditation in many different ways: it lowers blood pressure, improves blood circulation, and reduces cholesterol and atherosclerosis (the buildup of plaque in the arteries that can cause heart problems).

2. Slimmer, better looking body.

I know it sound too good to be true, but, never-the-less, it is true – you can shed pounds without sweating in the gym!
It is not a secret that we gain a lot of extra calories due to our bad eating habits (like eating in a hurry or munching on something when we feel frustrated, sad or bored). Stress relief and relaxation provided by meditation promote more conscious eating helping us to eat healthier and, consequently, stay thinner.

3. Reversed biological Aging Process.

Biological age measures how old a person is physiologically, taking in consideration the functioning of the major organ systems. As it turns out, long-term meditators, who have been practicing meditation for more than five years are physiologically 12 years younger than their chronological age, while short-term meditators quickly reverse physiological signs of aging by 5 years! Try it for yourself and feel your body getting younger and healthier every day!

4. Reduced stress and anxiety.

Neurological studies of the brain show that meditation boosts the intensity of alpha waves – associated with quiet, receptive states that can not be achieved during sleep or other relaxation techniques. This relaxed state combats worry and stress by efficiently lowering “stress” hormones and shifting brain activity to the calmer left hemisphere.

5. Stronger immune system and improved mood.

It has been shown that meditation can help produce antibodies against illness as well as lift your spirits, when you feel frustrated or sad. But the most remarkable thing is that these positive biological effects can last up to four months after the end of meditation training. Which means that it is enough to meditate for a couple of weeks to stay healthy for months!

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21 Keys to Energy Management to Boost Your Productivity and Life Satisfaction

energy1 300x201 21 Keys to Energy Management to Boost Your Productivity and Life SatisfactionTime management is a great theory. It helps us to get more organized, to set priorities, and to increase our productivity. Except for when it does not work…
I realized this yesterday, when I got home feeling exhausted after my 18-hour trip from Miami to Milan.
A cold shower, a nice breakfast and all the pep-talk about how much I needed to get done helped very little to overcome the sleepiness and lack of energy.
Two hours later I found myself mindlessly staring at the computer screen, without having the slightest desire to get any work done. And the monotonous sound of raindrops hitting the window and dark grey sky made me even sleepier.
When I finally took my eyes off the desktop and looked v e r y  s l o w l y at my do-to list for the day, the level of my enthusiasm and motivation dropped below zero. There was simply no way I could get it all done and no Time Management tips or tricks would have helped me to be more productive while I felt the way I felt.
Later thinking about it, I came to the conclusion that there is more to productivity than just managing 24 hours a day efficiently. Otherwise, we would all never feel overbooked, overwhelmed and underproductive. But the truth is that we do.
I believe that the main reason for this is that while we might be great at managing our time, we have not learned how to manage our levels of energy efficiently.
Here are 21 Keys to Energy management or the secrets of doing the right tasks at the right time:

1. Establish your “flow” times.

There is a certain time of day, when our energy and productivity is at its peak. I have noticed that I am most productive, focused and engaged in my work early in the morning and from 3 p.m. to 6 p.m. These are the times that I set aside for writing and brainstorming my ideas. Your “flow” time may be completely different from mine, but it is important that you learn it and organize tasks that you need to accomplish based on the level of energy that you have.

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15 Convincing Reasons to Give Up Your TV Time For a Better Life

watching tv 300x206 15 Convincing Reasons to Give Up Your TV Time For a Better LifeWhat is it that so many people have against watching TV? After all what harm can this cute little box that looks so innocent, so relaxing and so entertaining do?
In some ways watching TV is very similar to eating sweets. It is great as long as you ‘consume’ it in small quantities. An hour in front of the TV is fun and relaxing. Two hours are still enjoyable and engaging. Three hours -and you start fidgeting on the sofa, because your body craves some activity. Four hours – and here is what happens:

1. You have less free time.

I know that spending your evening in front of a flat screen TV may be your perfect idea of entertainment, relaxation and how to spend your free time. But those 4 and a half hours daily that you watch TV add up to months and years, taking your focus away from your family, friends, health goals, and hobbies. If watching TV does not add any noticeable value to your life, it becomes a time waster.

2. You fall behind.

Every hour we spend dozing off in front of the TV, is an hour that other people use for studying, reading, exercising, writing a book, learning to play a musical instrument or creating something new. While they are improving their lives and achieving their goals, we are falling further and further behind on ours. I am not saying that we should use every second of our life efficiently. I am saying that we should use it to become a little bit happier, a little bit wiser and a little bit more compassionate. Watching TV accomplishes none of these.

3. You become less engaging.

Picture a typical modern family: mother in the kitchen, watching TV, while cooking dinner, dad in the living room, watching a soccer match or the 8 o’clock news, son in his room playing computer games or watching a new video on YouTube.
Instead of spending quality time together like we used to, we spend it in front of the TV. And it is not just my personal impression. A recent study found that when the TV is on — even if it is just in the background — parents interact less with their kids and between themselves.

4. You gain weight.

Think about watching a great movie and not munching on anything. Especially when you see all those mouthwatering commercials of grilled shrimp cooked to a crisp or layers of milk chocolate covering a Snicker bar? No wonder the latest studies have demonstrated that people who watch 3 hours of TV per day are twice as likely to become obese than those who watch it for just an hour a day. So if you would like to lose some extra weight, you might want to consider losing your TV first.

5. You become defenseless against the marketing messages.

Watching TV puts the viewer into a highly suggestive trance-like hypnotic state, which provides easy access to our subconscious and noticeably decreases your ability to critically analyze all the incoming information. This makes you an easy target for more than 50,000 TV commercials that you are exposed to in a year.

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25 Fun and Easy Ways to Get Fit This Summer

woman meditating on a tropical beach1 199x300 25 Fun and Easy Ways to Get Fit This SummerSummer is the perfect season to get back into shape and burn those unneeded and unwanted pounds that we have put on during the cold winter season. And the best part is that you can do it without having to spend hours on a Stairmaster or exhausting yourself with crunches and push-ups.

Here are 25 fun and easy ways that will help you to lose weight, get fit and look gorgeous in your new swimming suit:

1. Drink plenty of water

The heat outside makes it easy to drink those 8 glasses of water a day that health professionals suggest we should drink. Our body naturally craves fluid to prevent dehydration and maintain the healthy operations of almost all our internal organs. In fact, it has been shown that most of our hunger pangs are caused by dehydration of the body, not by the desire to eat something. So next time, you feel hungry, drink a glass of water and see if your hunger goes away.

2. Avoid diuretics

Most high-calorie beverages like soda, juices, sugared iced tea, coffee or alcohol instead of hydrating us and quenching our thirst during hot summer days, work as diuretics (which means that they increase the excretion of water from the body), dehydrating us even more. No matter what TV ads tell you, there is nothing better than a glass of water with lemon to quench thirst and detoxify your body.

3. Start your day with a nutritiously-delicious breakfast

If you are one of those people, who regularly rush out of the house without eating breakfast, you might want to reconsider. In fact, there are some very compelling reasons to make breakfast the most important meal of the day.

Research has shown that in the morning our levels of blood sugar are seriously low and skipping breakfast can backfire on us later in the day with lack of energy, poor concentration, headaches and dizziness. However, starting your day with doughnuts, chocolate bars, pancakes, Sausage McMuffin (or almost any other dish from a fast food menu) is not particularly healthy either. While all these items may increase your blood sugar, they contain plenty of fat and very little nutrients, which lead to weight gain, decrease in energy and a foul mood. Therefore, to feel great, incorporate fresh fruits, berries, nuts, yogurt, oatmeal and natural juices into your breakfast menu.

4. Get more sun to get fit

There is some scientific evidence that says serotonin plays an important role in regulating appetite and mood. It means that boosting your levels of serotonin can leave you feeling happier and noticeably lower your appetite, especially by reducing cravings for foods that are high in carbohydrates. The production of serotonin, in turn, is closely linked with the amount of natural sun that we receive. This is one of the reasons why we eat more during the cold winter months and less in summer.

There are also a number of foods that help to increase the serotonin levels in our blood. Some of the most popular ones are bananas, wheat germ, cottage cheese, turkey, flaxseed oil, and dark chocolate! So in order to lose those extra pounds, grab a banana and hit the beach.

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8 Simple Ways To Reduce Computer Eyestrain and Improve Your Vision

computer strain1 300x213 8 Simple Ways To Reduce Computer Eyestrain and Improve Your Vision If you, like me, spend a lot of time working on a computer, reading or watching TV you are putting a lot of strain on your eyes. In fact, optometrists point out that people who spend hours in front of the computer are more likely to suffer from myopia (become short-sighted).

This happens for three main reasons:

1. Repeated small eye movements while you are reading something or watching TV noticeably strain and disables eye function.
2. Because most of the time our eyes are focused on objects at arms’-length they become accustomed to seeing close objects, which weakens eye muscles and makes it harder for us to see things in the distance clearly.
3. When using the computer our blink rate decreases by 70 %! It means that instead of blinking an average of 18 times per minute, we are blinking only 4 times per minute, which puts an enormous strain on our vision.
Fortunately, there are few things that you can do in order to improve your vision and help your eyes cope with the work strain better:

1. Become aware of your posture.

A slumped, sitting position restricts blood circulation to the head, neck and eyes, which often causes tension headaches and weakens our vision. Notice your sitting position as you are reading this post. Are you slouching? Are you comfortable in your chair? Do your bones crack every time you stretch your body? Start paying attention to your posture and every time you catch yourself crouching over computer – sit up straight!

2. Refocus.

Every 40-50 minutes look away from your computer screen and shift your focus to any distant object (e.g. look out of the window or focus on something on the other side of the room).

Another great exercise for improving the focusing ability of your eyes:

• Hold your thumb in front of your face about six inches from your nose.
• Focus on your thumb.
• Take a deep breath and exhale slowly.
• Then focus on an object about 10 feet away.
• Take another deep breath and slowly exhale.
• Repeat back and forth 20 times

3. Relax your eyes.

There are two great ways to immediately take the strain off your tired eyes and help them to relax.
• Blink rapidly for about 30 seconds.

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• Palming. This a great ayurvedic exercise that is now widely used by many vision improvement programs.
Here is how to do it correctly.

1) First, rub your hands together until they feel warm (about 15 to 20 seconds). Then place your cupped hands over your closed eyes, being careful not to touch your eyes with the palms of your hands (if you do it correctly, you should see pitch darkness even when you open your eyes). The fingers of each hand should overlap and rest gently on the center of your forehead. Rest your elbows on a table.
2) Sit quietly for one to two minutes with your hands over your eyes.
3) After you are done slowly open your eyes.

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17 Amazing Ways to Rejuvenate Mind and Body

rejuvenate mind and body1 200x300 17 Amazing Ways to Rejuvenate Mind and BodyI sit in my apartment in Milan, looking out of the window on a street, light with sunlight and cannot stop smiling! A long, cold winter is officially over! And everything looks and feels different. The air is fresher. The snow has melted  and beautiful greens of every hue begin to shine in the sun. People look happier.

Everywhere you look, you see a transformation: days are getting longer, flowers are blooming and trees are getting new tiny leaves.

No wonder spring is considered the season of growth, renewal and love!
Spring is also the perfect time of the year to revitalize your senses and refresh your mind.

Here are tips that will help you to do just that:

1. Get rid of clutter. During the winter our homes tend to become filled with lots of bulk and piles of different things. It is both physically and emotionally healthy to simplify and de-clutter your work and living space once in a while. Right now is the perfect time to do that! Organize your desk, sort out old photos, make room in your closets by throwing or giving away anything that is unwanted, outdated, unused for 2 years or no longer fits. Let the energy flow freely.

2. Captivate your senses with aromatherapy. For thousands of years essential oils have been used by different cultures because of their health-promoting benefits. Use chamomile, bergamot, cedarwood, lavender, rose, or sandalwood to calm down your mind, ease anxiety and stress and soothe tensed muscles. Or choose citrus, peppermint, rosemary and thyme scents to energize your body and uplift your mood.

3. Take a few moments to meditate. Meditation is a great way to calm your mind, increase concentration, release negative feelings and regain your emotional strength.

4. Do nothing for a half an hour. As it turns out there are many physical benefits of doing nothing and just being lazy. Research shows that people who would rather relax in a hammock and read a book instead of working on their laptop or doing their house chores have a better chance of living into old age. Give yourself some rest!

5. Take mini-vacations during the day. You do not have to wait for a two-week vacation to feel rejuvenated and energetic. Instead you can take 15-minute mini-vacations every hour or so to regain your strengths and put some space between you and your hectic work schedule.

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19 Ways to Start Your Day on the Right Foot

start day great 300x202 19 Ways to Start Your Day on the Right FootBzzzz… Bzzzz…
The annoying sound of an alarm clock pulls you out of your dream. You open your eyes, make an enormous mental effort and take one hand out of the covers and hit “snooze” to happily drift back to sleep. A few moments later you hear the same familiar sound. Have 15 minutes already passed? You calculate that you can afford another 15 minutes of lolling about and hit snooze again.

By the time you drag yourself out of bed you have just enough time left to take a quick shower, get dressed, gulp down orange juice and grab something “eatable” on your way to the door. You spend the rest of the day feeling somehow annoyed and frustrated, because it seems that all you are doing is trying to catch up with your busy schedule! Does it sound familiar?

If yes, than the morning is probably not your favorite time of the day. Just like it was not for me. Although, I have learned that it does not have to be this way!

Here is how to make your mornings enjoyable and start your day on the right foot:

1. End the previous day right. Never go to bed in a bad mood. Settle any arguments, let go of frustration and make a conscious effort to relax your whole body. Calm down your racing mind. Stop thinking about work or going over all the stuff that needs to be done. Night time is meant for rest so make the most of it.

2. Get enough sleep. Being a night person myself I know how tempting it may be to stay up late chatting with your friends or just watching your favorite movie at home. It is fun, but you need to be smart about it. If you are robbing yourself of two extra hours of sleep, you are doing yourself a great disservice. 7 hours of sleep is an absolute must for most people in order to feel refreshed and energized the next day.

3. Do not close your blinds all the way. Our body has a built-in biological clock that is synchronized with natural light. When we find ourselves in darkness, our brain starts to produce “the hormone of darkness” – melatonin that signals to our body that it is time to sleep. Melatonin production is inhibited by light and this is how our body knows that it is time to get up. If you sleep in complete darkness, you will wake up in the morning feeling light-headed and tired.

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How Your Beliefs Affect Your Health

negative beliefs 300x277 How Your Beliefs Affect Your HealthHealth problems are usually explained by such factors as genetic heritage, stress, bad habits (smoking, drinking), lifestyle (nutrition, amount of exercise and sleep) and environmental factors (smog, pesticides, air or water pollution). However, there is another very important, but often overlooked factor that can noticeably impact our well-being. It is our belief system.

Our beliefs and expectations are very powerful. They not only guide our life choices and direct our actions, but they also serve as a filter through which we define ourselves and our reality. Our beliefs can either improve our health or damage it.

Have you ever heard of a Placebo Effect? It describes how a substance with no medical properties causes a patient to improve, just because they believe in its efficacy. Numerous clinical trials have demonstrated that a little bit of sugar can eliminate skin problems, reduce pain, noticeably improve physical performance, recover from mental trauma, and even cure cancer! The same “sugar pill” can make a person feel sick, cause anxiety and anger, make them feel drunk, cause a headache or a stomach ache, and even lead to such serious consequences as death.

Scientific research suggests that the Placebo Effect accounts for about 40% of all health improvements! It means that in 40 percent of cases our health improves ONLY because of our strong belief that the treatment will benefit us and not because of the qualities of an actual pill or therapeutic procedure or surgery.

For example, if you were told by your doctor and other medical authorities that reading this article will make you feel better, and be more energized and optimistic, there is a high chance that you will really notice positive health changes. Amazing, isn’t it?

What you believe about yourself and your well-being is immediately translated into a physiological response and affects the function of your body. The bottom line is, if you trick your mind into thinking that you are sick, you will actually become sick and vice versa. If you convince yourself that you are feeling better, your health will improve.

The most common destructive beliefs that have a negative impact on our health are:

  1. Exaggeration of the real situation. (“I can’t handle it!”, “It is just intolerable!”, “The idea of doing it makes me sick!”)
  2. Focusing on how unfair life is (“Why is it happening to me?!”, “It’s not fair!”, “It’s probably a punishment for…!”)
  3. Blaming everyone and everything (“I hate my job! How can I quit smoking, when I feel stressed all the time?”).
  4. Underestimating your own abilities (“I can’t do it!”, “I feel so helpless…”, “Why even trying…?”)
  5. Putting oneself down (“I’m worthless.”, “I don’t deserve to be healthy or happy”, “How can anyone care about me?”)
  6. Using your bad health to get some sympathy or as a manipulation tool (“You will give me a heart attack…”, “Why are you doing this, when you know I can’t worry/have a high blood pressure…”)

Our beliefs are also greatly influenced by the information that we receive from outside sources. Everyday we are exposed to ill-health messages. We are bombarded with news about different incurable diseases, traumas, and food poisonings. We watch TV programs and shows about accidents, viruses, hospitals and doctors. We read articles about particular diseases in the newspapers and magazines. Our friends, family members, co-workers and even people that we see for the first time give their opinions, suggestions and negative beliefs about ill-health.

If you are still skeptical about the influence of negative messages from outside sources on our health, try reading the symptoms of any common health problem, like depression or anxiety disorders. Chances are that you will find that you are experiencing half of the symptoms even though you can be the most optimistic and upbeat person on the Planet. The explanation is simple – most of us occasionally feel down, tired, and irritated. We can experience lack of appetite or have difficulty falling asleep. Does it mean that we all are suffering from severe depression or anxiety disorders? Of course not! But if we convince ourselves that we are, it will immediately affect our mood and well-being.

Each individual negative message by itself can do very little harm, but the endless stream of messages makes them hard to ignore. It also keeps our mind constantly focused on health problems and possible hazards. If you want to stay healthy and feel well:

  • Become aware of the messages that you are sending to your subconscious mind.
  • Use positive affirmations to improve your health.
  • Reinforce your positive beliefs with health-enhancing actions (sign up for the gym, start making healthy food choices, incorporate relaxation and meditation into your routine, get more sleep).
  • Limit your exposure to negative messages that you receive from outside sources.
  • Develop a critical attitude towards ill-health that you hear on TV or from other people. For example, if your friend tells you that there is a new virulent form of common cold affecting the whole city, it does not necessarily mean that you will get sick too.

And remember, you have the ability to choose your own beliefs, attitudes and actions. If you want to take control of your life, you should not let others chose your beliefs for you!

7 Factors That Keep You Overweight

mean burger 300x227 7 Factors That Keep You OverweightMore and more people nowadays choose as their main goal – to lose extra weight. However, anyone who has ever tried to lose weight will tell you that it is not as easy as it seems. New weight loss products and “magical” solutions appear on the market every day. We torture ourselves with new fad diets that promise us stunning results in no time, buy expensive home exercise machines, sign up for the gym, read books on healthy eating and pop diet pills. Some of us go as far as ordering weight loss pants that you put on before going to bed and “comfortably” sleep all night long, while our extra pounds just magically “melt away” with absolutely no effort on our part.

In the U.S. alone $33 billion are annually spent on various weight-loss products and services. And yet the number of overweight and obese people is steadily increasing every day. Research conducted by the International Obesity task force report that 58 million Americans are overweight, 40 million are obese and more than 3 million morbidly obese. It means that practically 8 out of 10 Americans over the age of 25 are classified as overweight or obese.

Losing weight is not easy. If it was, we would all be slim and fit by now. And it is not due to our weak motivation, because the majority of people are ready to pay any price to lose extra weight and keep it off. It is not due to a lack of desire to change eating habits; otherwise the diets would not be so popular. Genetics plays only a minor role in excessive weight gain, as our DNA has not undergone any noticeable change in the last 30 years.

There can be only one explanation – such drastic growth rate of overweight and obesity is caused by environmental factors that most of us are unaware about.

  1. Technological innovations. While technological changes certainly make our life easier, they are one of the main factors contributing to weight gain. Tasks that required expenditure of energy just a few decades ago nowadays require very little effort or no effort at all. When we want to change a TV channel, lower the volume of the stereo system, turn on the air conditioner, or open the garage doors, we do not need to get up any more. All we have to do is press a button on the remote control. If we invite friends for a party, we do not have to worry about cooking or washing dishes. We have microwaves and dishwashers to save us time and effort. Shopping has gotten easier than ever. You do not even have to leave your house any more. You can order anything from groceries to clothes and the latest gadgets online and your purchase will be delivered right to your door. No wonder that according to the latest research groups, the population that has had the greatest ability to take advantage of technological innovations has had the biggest increases in weight.
  2. Processed food. Technological innovations have made it possible for food to be mass produced. Even though it takes just 5-10 minutes to prepare a meal, most of the pre-made food that we buy and consume is “empty calorie” food. It means that while it contains the same amount of energy (calories) as fresh food it lacks such micronutrients as minerals, vitamins, amino acids and fiber that are responsible for healthy body functioning. Generally “empty calories” are converted to fat and lead to weight gain.
  3. Oversized meals. The portions that are served by fast food and other restaurants are far larger than the recommended portion size for most foods. Wherever you go you are offered “all-you-can-eat” platters, get a bigger size portion for just a few extra bucks, or add a desert for 0.99 cents. Such “deals” make us feel as we are getting more value for our money and we rarely say “no”. As a result we are becoming accustomed to oversized portions that we start to think of them as “normal”. In reality, however, a regular meal served to you in a restaurant usually contains more than 1000 calories.
  4. Variety of food. Over the past few decades buffets have become very popular. Even though the concept of a buffet sounds appealing, research has shown that when we are given more choices we tend to eat more. Even if you decide to merely “taste” everything, this nibbling leads most of us to consume much more food than we would normally eat at a typical meal. Not to mention that eating lots of different products in one serving, weakens the digestive system and leads to such problems as indigestion, heartburn, stomach cramps and acid reflux.
  5. Not having enough physical activity. If we gain weight, we either consume more calories than we need or expend fewer calories than we consume. With the number of hours we spend in front of the computer, TV or in our car, we expend very little physical energy. This is why it is really important not only to pay attention to what and how much you eat, but to incorporate more exercise into your daily activities. For example, to “burn” 150 calories (three Oreo cookies or one can of Pepsi) a regular person would have to walk for a mile and a half, otherwise those unneeded calories will be transformed to fat.
  6. Snacks between meals. With our hectic lifestyle at times it can be difficult to find time for a proper lunch break. Most of us are either `eating on the move’ or skip lunch all together and substitute it with snacks. Snacking has become a part of our daily routine. We munch on popcorn while watching a movie at a movie theater, order a basket of chips or chicken wings whenever we go out to have a drink with friends, snack on chocolate while at work or eat some cookies while watching our favorite reality show on TV. Most of the snacks and pastries contain high amounts of refined sugars, trans fats, white flour, salt and numerous food additives, while having very little nutritional value. All of these little snacks add up to an excessive amount of calories over the weeks and months. On average, about 3,500 calories equal one pound. So if you are trying to eat healthy, but still gaining weight, pay close attention to snacks that you eat between meals.
  7. Fad diets and “magical solutions”. Most of the fad diets are popular, because they promise that you will lose extra weight fast. There is a problem, however. Our bodies were designed to help us survive. When you start eating less food, your body enters “starvation mode” and tries to save energy by slowing down its metabolic rate. In this case the body gets rid of lean muscle mass and water. As soon as you start eating normally, your body will immediately store any incoming fat in fat cells to make sure that there is an energy reserve, in case you decide to go on starvation diet again. Therefore, the faster you lose weight, the faster you will gain it all back. And you will probably weight more than before you started a diet.