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How to Declutter Your Home in Ten Days

declutter your home 300x204 How to Declutter Your Home in Ten DaysSpring has long come, bringing along the aromas of wild flowers, freshly cut grass and morning sun. With sunlight streaming through the windows and the change of season our houses suddenly start to feel stuffier and more cluttered than ever.

Our closets are filled with warm clothes, winter shoes and skiing gear. Our drawers are overflowing with stacks of notes, papers, paid bills and old concert tickets that we have not felt like throwing away. Our kitchen shelves are stuffed with spices, soup jars, plastic food containers (many of them without matching lids) and a whole bunch of cook books. And for the sake of our order-loving parents all the clutter that has accumulated in our basement and garage is better left unmentioned.

So how do we claim back our living space that has been taken over by the clutter? How can we bring freshness and lightness into our home? How do we make it look like one of those sun filled and airy homes that we often see on magazine covers?

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Find Your Calling: It’s All About the Right Education and Career Choices

dream job1 300x204 Find Your Calling: It’s All About the Right Education and Career ChoicesI have met all kinds of people, who honestly believe that they are not good at anything. They simply get on with their lives.

It is firmly engraved in our society that you should choose an education that will guarantee a well-paid job. The same goes for a career. This is why we get a bunch of unhappy people who are working in jobs that bore them to tears and leave them feeling that there is something missing from their life.

Surprisingly, too many of us view our job only as a source of income, not taking time to ask ourselves if what we do is aligned with our interests, values, or our passion.

And I believe that it all starts with education…

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How to Always Finish What You Started

finish what you start 300x207 How to Always Finish What You StartedMany people are great at starting things and bad at following them through. I bet if we went through our closets, drawers and garage shelves we would find signs of incompletion: a pile of magazines that we ordered a while ago, but never had time to read; a work out machine, collecting dust in our garage; a guitar that we never learned how to play. And what about all the emails that we did not have time to answer? What about New Year’s resolutions that we are unmotivated to finish?

If it sounds familiar here are a few things you might want to consider, before leaving something unfinished:

1. You spend more energy thinking about uncompleted tasks, than actually doing them.

All the mental energy that we spend thinking about all the unfinished tasks, could have been directed at doing something way more productive and satisfying. So next time you will feel like leaving something incomplete, think twice. Because you are actually making yourself work harder.

2. The hardest part is starting, not finishing.

Starting something is already a big achievement in itself. There are a lot of people, who get stuck in the thinking phase, so they actually never get to taking action on their ideas. Even if you took one little step towards your goals, you have already made progress. You are on the right track. All you have to do is take another step and another step… and little by little you will get there.

3. Perfectionism is the worst enemy of completion.

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