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40 Simple Ways to Save Money at Christmas

Christmas – the Magical time of love, and joy and giving.

Christmas saving tips1 200x300 40 Simple Ways to Save Money at ChristmasUnfortunately, for many of us, it is the most expensive time of year too. If you feel that you have more cheer than cash this season, do not worry! There are plenty of ways to save money during the holiday season, while having the best Christmas ever!

Here are 40 Smart Strategies to stay in budget this Christmas:

1. Start budgeting for the holiday season today

Before getting to any Christmas money savings tactics, decide how much money, realistically, you would like to spend on the holiday festivities, including Christmas decorations, entertaining, gifts, Christmas cards, etc… When you figure out how much money you want to spend, let’s see what you can do to stay within your budget!

2. Help out Santa with gifts this year

Instead of buying expensive gifts for your family and friends, make them yourself! Believe me, there are hundreds of inexpensive home-made gift ideas that literally anyone can do! Why spend hours in the mall, waiting in huge lines, when you can make gifts that are personal, meaningful, inexpensive and above all, fun to do. ( You can find homemade gift ideas here and here)

3. Opt for cool, rather than expensive!

Think of cool, funny and inexpensive gifts that you can give to your family members and friends. There are plenty of great gadgets, personalized mugs, and funny quote books for under $5- $10.

4. Give a framed picture

Nowadays, when most of us have digital cameras, it seems we never have time to print our pictures and frame them. Maybe this is why a good picture, beautifully framed is a gift that so many people appreciate!

5. Re-gift!

Go through your stuff and see if there are any presents that you have received, won or got with the latest promotions that you are not planning on using. Think of who might like these gifts!

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7 Great Counter-Intuitive Tips to Save Money

Saving money is not about having to deny yourself something you want or feeling guilty about spending it. By doing this you only suppress your desires and make yourself feel unsatisfied and inferior by not being able to afford the stuff you want. Trying to force a “frugal” lifestyle onto yourself is like trying to stop the flood from a broken drainage pipe with your hand. It helps to temporary stop the flood, but does not fix the real problem!
I am a true believer that saving money should be painless and even an enjoyable activity!
Here are 7 Counter-Intuitive tips that will help you save more money for a rainy day than any “money-saving plan” could ever do:
1. Redefine your definition of “wealthy”. Most of us define wealth as having LOTS of money and LOTS of things. How do you define when you are rich and decide that it is enough? When I was a student, I dreamed of having my own car. After 7 months of hard work and many sacrifices I finally bought my first car. It was a sky blue 12 year-old Toyota Celica, with a scratch on the left front door. I loved it! And for a time I felt really cool! After a year and a half I bought a new car, but it did not feel as great, because there was an even cooler car at a dealership that I could not afford. No matter how much you have there will always be more.
Now I sit in my rented apartment in Miami, looking at a picture of my family and my closest friends on the desktop and I feel like a millionaire! Being rich to me means having enough money to pay my bills, puting some money away for “rainy days” and being able to give some money away to those who need it. What is your definition of wealth?
2. Redefine “fun”. Have you ever noticed that children have an amazing ability to make a game out of everything? They can easily turn a piece of wood into a racing car or play with a ball that they have found in the street and completely ignore all the “cool” toys that are lying around the house. For some reason as we grow older we come to believe money is essential for having a good time. Get a little creative! You can find ways to have fun together with your family without going to the mall or eating out.
3. Get out of the “quick fix” mentality. In today’s society money is used as a substitute for “hard work”. Why change your eating habits and exercising, when you can take a diet pill or put on a ‘magic’ belt that does the exercises for you? Unfortunately, there are three main reasons why quick fix solutions are a waste of your hard earned money.
First of all, if something works “instantly” and without any effort on your part there are always side-effects and/or far-reaching implications attached to it.
Second, quick fixes bring results that pass just as quickly. There is a difference between losing weight and keeping it off for good.
Third, there is something quick fix ads never tell you – any quick fix still requires “hard work”. Take, for example, weight loss surgery. In order to stay thin and have great looking skin you WILL have to change your eating habits and start working out! You CAN NOT solve long-term problems such as health, finances, and aging with fad diets, “get-rich-quick-schemes” and anti-wrinkle creams.
4. Stop competing with your next door neighbor. For many of us it has become a question of honor to demonstrate to everyone how wonderful and successful we are by having the biggest TV, driving the coolest car, wearing name brand clothing and having the best looking lawn in the neighborhood.
There is no doubt that receiving envious looks from your neighbors rubs our ego the right way. But, let’s face it, it does not make us feel any happier inside. Nor does it make us a better person. So who cares about brands?! Strive to have a better family and happier relationships, and a more gratifying life instead of competing for who has the most “stuff”.
5. Stop sounding like your mother.  If you have trouble manifesting material wealth into your life – try a simple exercise. Think about your parents. What kind of money beliefs do they have? Very often, your negative beliefs about money and rich people have been ingrained into our subconscious mind since our childhood. It might well be that your parents when they discussed their money problems talked about how you have to work hard for money or that wealthy people are cunning, greedy and evil. These were the same beliefs that were passed to your parents from your grandparents, just as your parents have unknowingly passed them onto you.
Such negative beliefs create friction and block the flow of abundance. If part of you believes that money is dirty, then your subconscious mind will do everything in its power to prevent you from having more of it.
6. Avoid impulse buying. The easiest way known to reward yourself is to buy something new. In 99% of the times anything we buy impulsively is not something that we truly need. Otherwise, it would not be called an “impulsive” but rather a “rational” purchase.
It is always exciting to open a box containing a new pair of shoes or come home with a new cell phone. However, when the excitement wears off a little, nasty feelings like regret and guilt creep into our heart. One of the easiest ways to save yourself a lot of money is to give yourself two-three days wait before buying something that you really want. That way you will not feel guilty afterwards.
7. Limit your advertisement intake. Advertisement helps companies to sell their products, just as it helps consumers to learn more about various offers and sales. However, more and more research demonstrates the downsides of excessive advertisement intake. One such negative effect is known as the “tyranny of choice” provoked by the endless need to decide between numerous brands competing for our attention. The claims of advertisements often crowd in on people, raising expectations about a product and leading to inevitable disappointment after it is bought.
But the biggest indirect and less obvious danger of advertisement is that it is engineered with two purposes: to create a strong desire and need to buy something, and to make us feel incomplete or inferior if we do not have something (be it a slim waist, white teeth or a new laptop).
P.S. If you have other great money-saving tips, please, share them below with the rest of the world!

money saving tips 200x300 7 Great Counter Intuitive Tips to Save MoneySaving money is not about having to deny yourself something you want or feeling guilty about spending it. By doing this you only suppress your desires and make yourself feel unsatisfied and inferior by not being able to afford the stuff you want. Trying to force a “frugal” lifestyle onto yourself is like trying to stop the flood from a broken drainage pipe with your hand. It helps to temporary stop the flood, but does not fix the real problem!

I am a true believer that saving money should be painless and even an enjoyable activity!

Here are 7 Counter-Intuitive tips that will help you save more money for a rainy day than any “money-saving plan” could ever do:

1. Redefine your definition of “wealthy”. Most of us define wealth as having LOTS of money and LOTS of things. How do you define when you are rich and decide that it is enough? When I was a student, I dreamed of having my own car. After 7 months of hard work and many sacrifices I finally bought my first car. It was a sky blue 12 year-old Toyota Celica, with a scratch on the left front door. I loved it! And for a time I felt really cool! After a year and a half I bought a new car, but it did not feel as great, because there was an even cooler car at a dealership that I could not afford. No matter how much you have there will always be more.

Now I sit in my rented apartment in Miami, looking at a picture of my family and my closest friends on the desktop and I feel like a millionaire! Being rich to me means having enough money to pay my bills, puting some money away for “rainy days” and being able to give some money away to those who need it. What is your definition of wealth?

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The Three Biggest Investments that All Wealthy People Make

Fact #1: 497 people (approximately 0.000008% of the world’s population) control $3.5 trillion (over 7% of world GDP).
Fact #2: 99% of the US population is not part of the “investing class”
Fact #3: At the end of 2008 the average credit card debt for households was $10,679. And it continues to grow.
You can consider wealthy people evil and greedy or you can view them as a group of people who donate millions of dollars to charity. You can envy them or you can learn from them. You can despise them for their success or admire them for their achievements. That is up to you!
But whatever your perception and beliefs about rich people are, you cannot deny one thing – they are good at keeping and multiplying their wealth.
So what do they do differently from the rest of the population?
What are their best kept secrets?
1. Wealthy people invest money instead of spending it.
In business investing money means making a purchase of value with the expectation of favorable future returns. To put it simply, you use money to make more money. I looked up the term “spending money” in a dictionary and it actually means “using money for small current or incidental expenses”.
Spending money was supposed to be something that we do occasionally when you feel particularly impulsive. Most of us, however, have got it other way around. We spend 20 times more than we invest. And this is the main reason, why we are still not rich.
By “investing money” I do not mean “buying stocks” and “becoming a shareholder”. Anything you buy can be viewed as an investment or spending. The rules are simple- if a product loses its value in the long term – than it is a bad investment decision. If you get more value out of it – you are being smart with your money.
This concept is easier than it seems. Let’s take food, for example. If you eat junk food or processed food for dinner this will lower your energy levels, while providing very little or no nutrient value for your body.
Conclusion? You are spending your money on something that is bad for your health and your physique. Vice versa, home-cooked organic food is an investment that you make, by helping to keep your body strong and healthy.
Now let’s talk about cars. You are probably aware that a new car loses one third of its price the second you drive out of the dealership. Is it a good investment? Probably not… This is why most self-made millionaires prefer used reliable cars to a shiny new Jaguar.
Starting from now before reaching for your wallet, take a second to reflect if what you are about to buy is an investment or a waste of your hard-earned money.
2. Wealthy people invest in themselves. Wealthy people realize that you can always make more money if you have the knowledge about how to do it and the right set of skills. This is why they willingly spend about 20% of their income on self-education and personal development. They are the ones that read books, attend seminars and actively search for ‘mentors’.
If you want to be wealthy, you have to understand that knowledge and experience are your most valuable assets. It is the reason why professionals get paid 10 times more than college graduates do.
Think of what skills you would like to improve? What inner blocks and negative beliefs about money prevent you from being successful? What are your strengths that you would like to develop further?
3. Wealthy people invest in relationships. People who have money are often accused of having the “right connections”. It is viewed by many as a negative thing. Similar to a mafia clan, that spins its web around poor law-abiding citizens and indulges in money laundering and other illegal machinations.
Wealthy people have “connections” not because they were born into influential families, but because they take time to establish these relationships. Look at the best-sellers in self-help area, like “Think and grow rich” by Napoleon Hill, “How to Win Friends and Influence People”, ” Pathways to Success – In Your Personal and Private Lives” by Dale Carnegie, “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People” by Stephen R. Covey, “Awaken the Giant Within : How to Take Immediate Control of Your Mental, Emotional, Physical and Financial Destiny!” by Anthony Robbins – all of them were written by highly successful and self-made millionaires. They all talk about same things: the importance of positive thinking, expressing of gratitude, compassion, and giving.
Relationships in general, not just business relationships, are one of your strongest assets. Your family and friends will support you through difficult times. Your mentors will give you good advice when you most need it. Your co-workers help you out with a project and make your day more enjoyable. Your business partners and your customers will help you to increase your income and make money.
Invest your time and effort in creating good relationships with people. It is easy.
Here is a tip: “Treat others the same way you want them to treat you.”  - Jesus (from Luke 6:31).

invest money 300x198 The Three Biggest Investments that All Wealthy People MakeFact #1: 497 people (approximately 0.000008% of the world’s population) control $3.5 trillion (over 7% of world GDP).

Fact #2: 99% of the US population is NOT part of the “investing class”

Fact #3: At the end of 2008 the average credit card debt for households was $10,679. And it continues to grow.

You can consider wealthy people evil and greedy or you can view them as a group of people who donate millions of dollars to charity. You can envy them or you can learn from them. You can despise them for their success or admire them for their achievements. That is up to you!

But whatever your perception and beliefs about rich people are, you cannot deny one thing – they are good at keeping and multiplying their wealth.

So what do they do differently from the rest of the population?

What are their best kept secrets?

1. Wealthy people invest money instead of spending it.

In business investing money means making a purchase of value with the expectation of favorable future returns. To put it simply, you use money to make more money. I looked up the term “spending money” in a dictionary and it actually means “using money for small current or incidental expenses”.

Spending money was supposed to be something that we do occasionally when you feel particularly impulsive. Most of us, however, have got it other way around. We spend 20 times more than we invest. And this is the main reason, why we are still not rich.

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